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Captivate

by Vanessa Van Edwards · 2017

Vanessa Van Edwards's take on self-improvement, the honest verdict is below.

Worth reading? A behavioral-science guide to social skills and connection. Practical and specific; skip if you dislike step-by-step 'people hacking,' though the tactics are grounded and usable.

AuthorVanessa Van Edwards
Published2017
CategorySelf-Improvement & Psychology

ISBN: 9780399564499ISBN10: 0399564497ASIN: 0399564497

The Verdict

A behavioral-science guide to social skills and connection. Practical and specific; skip if you dislike step-by-step ‘people hacking,’ though the tactics are grounded and usable.

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anyone weighing whether Captivate belongs on their self-improvement and psychology shelf

Captivate by Vanessa Van Edwards: book review and summary

Top 9 Lessons from Captivate

  1. Social success can be engineered with specific techniques.
  2. Optimize where you stand and how you enter a room.
  3. Your first impression is set fast; manage it deliberately.
  4. Ask better questions to spark real conversation.
  5. Warmth and competence are the two traits people judge first.
  6. Learn to read personality to tailor your approach.
  7. Highlight others to make yourself memorable.
  8. Master the mechanics of likability rather than leaving it to chance.
  9. Decode people's motivations to connect faster.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Captivate worth reading?

Yes if you want concrete, research-based social techniques. Skip if 'people hacking' feels calculated to you.

What is the main idea of Captivate?

Social skills are learnable systems; you can deliberately improve how you connect, impress, and read people.

Who should read Captivate?

Introverts, networkers, and anyone wanting to be more effective socially.

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